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5 Steps to Achieve Your Goals

June 4, 2018 by Kelly Nash 2 Comments

Goals. We all have them, but what does it take to actually accomplish and succeed in those goals?

Even though this post is categorized under “Career,” this topic of goal setting and achieving can be applicable to any part of your life. We can have career goals, but also personal development goals and travel goals. Goals are a way for us to put our finger on something and recognize that we want or need something. It always starts as a positive notion and we get excited about the possibility of getting to that end goal.

The thing is though, most people don’t think about the in-between of the initial goal setting and achieving that said goal. We sometimes aren’t honest about what’s going to go into actually reaching that goal and I think that’s where a lot of us then get discouraged. Once we actually start trying and making strides towards our goal, we realize it’s not as easy as we thought and many will give up. We make excuses, we doubt ourselves, and maybe we’re just afraid to fail. This ultimately ends up holding ourselves back from not only achieving that goal, but growing through that process.

Let’s just say, I’ve been there. I can truly be my own worst enemy as it pertains to my career and personal development goals. I’ve doubted myself and let my negative thoughts take over. But you know what? I would not be where I am today if I let those thoughts consume me and I gave up every time I tried something new or set a new goal for myself. I now see everything as a challenge for myself because I always want to be learning, growing, and progressing and setting actionable and realistic goals is the way to do that.

Starting my blog is one of the first things that comes to mind as one of my biggest goals and successes to date. Before 2018 began, I had no idea launching a blog was even a goal of mine. Once I did make it a goal in mid-January, I knew I had to be doing it for the right reasons and be honest with myself that it was going to take a lot of time and commitment. I had no idea where to even start, but by doing these five things below, I knew I would be set up for success.

I’m sharing these steps with you as a means to shift your thinking and your perspective so you can first be honest with yourself, but also be motivated to actually reach the goals you have set for yourself in life. You can make positive changes and you can reach your goals.

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Have An Actionable Goal & Be Patient

First and foremost, what is the goal you aim to accomplish? You may have many goals, but it’s good to separate them into their own separate buckets so you can really stay focused. Think about a very high level goal you have for yourself, like launching a blog, for example. Physically write it down on paper. From there, jot down all the smaller goals you may need to do to launch a blog. One of the first mini goals to launching a blog is deciding on your brand – what will your colors be, what will your logo look like, what will the name of your blog mean to your readers? Another mini goal would be choosing and purchasing a website domain and design theme.

My advice is to look at these mini-goals as steps to getting you to your main goal and accomplishment. This way, you are acknowledging and appreciating everything that goes into achieving your end goal. I think seeing everything visually on paper helps too, so you can cross off each mini-goal and see them as mini-accomplishments. It will not only help keep you motivated, but also, you won’t get so caught up in the fact if you’re behind in reaching your goal. 

Make sure you stay patient with yourself and don’t allow yourself to get discouraged if you aren’t seeing results right away. It’s easy to get caught up in our own thoughts and progress may not go as quickly as we’d like. However, it’s critical to remember that goal setting and achieving takes time and takes hard work, so be realistic with yourself and know that you will get there when the time is right.

Do Your Research & Ask Questions

Once you’ve defined your main goal and its mini-goals to help you get there, it’s time to do some research. Google became my best friend as I was starting my blog because I had literally no idea what I was doing. I was excited to learn everything that goes into it and began furiously Googling, reading, documenting and implementing what I learned. There is so much on the web and it’s incredible how quickly you can find tutorials and advice from strangers. When I did get stuck, namely with my site’s theme, I asked questions. You cannot be stubborn when it comes to reaching your goals. You have to be vulnerable in knowing you are doing something likely entirely new and you’re not going to have all the answers. Ask questions to those who have been in your situation or reach out for help when you need it. Generally, people are going to be willing to help you and I promise you that it will go a long way for you to achieving success. 

Stop the Compare Game

Just stop. Stop comparing. It’s rare that anyone is going to be on the exact same life path as you. Even if you are trying to achieve the same goal as someone else at the same time, they will be achieving it in different ways and even running into completely different hurdles than you.

You also cannot get caught up with those who have already reached the goal you are working towards. When we look at others’ lives and see success or something we don’t have, it can potentially have detrimental effects. We compare and then get down on ourselves that we’ll never have what that person has. We tend to see the end result of where that person is in life and that’s just not fair. You have to think about everything they too had to do to get where they are. They worked hard and put in the time and effort and likely ran into issues and hardships along the way. Have perspective – you are just at a different place in your life and that’s okay. 

Focus only on you and your path. I know that’s easier said than done, but I’ve learned this really is the biggest step for success.

Be Prepared to Put in the Work

This is the mother-load. If you’re not ready to put in the work, you’re likely going to end up disappointed and discouraged throughout the entire process. Nothing comes easy and you have to realize that. When it came to launching my blog, I was writing, editing, photo editing, creating my website, and building up my social channels all at once. To do that, I was working late nights after my full-time job, putting in hours equivalent of a second full-time job. I did this because I wanted to prove to myself that I could meet my launch date goal. Even now that my blog has launched and is in its infancy stage, I constantly feel like I have to be proving myself to stay relevant and write relatable content. This often means again, very late nights and weekends full of writing and everything else that goes into publishing blog posts.

If you’re 100% serious about reaching your goal, you will put in the time and effort, especially if you want to do it right. After you’ve done your research, you’ll have a better understanding of what exactly you need to do to succeed in your goal. Use that as an opportunity to set deadlines along the way and keep yourself on track. Just like goal setting, by breaking up the process into smaller deadlines, you’ll be more prepared to continue working and doing everything you need to do to accomplish your main goal.

Put Yourself Out There

I’ve wrote about the importance of networking when it comes to landing jobs. Networking can be advantageous even when it comes to achieving your goals. I recommend being willing to put yourself out there and start the process by asking the right questions. As you progress, continue asking questions and connecting with other like-minded individuals. For me personally, starting my blog has already opened so many doors and I’ve been able to meet new people both in-person and virtually. I’ve been thrilled to meet other women who share the same interests and goals as we’ve been able to support each other in this crazy blogging world.

My point here is to take advantage of meeting new people and going to events. Talk about your goal and what you’re doing to accomplish it. You never know who may be in a similar situation or who has been there already, as they can offer words of advice and encouragement. They may just open a door for you you didn’t even know existed.

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There you have it – the 5 steps to achieving your goals! Do you think these will help in motivating you in the process of reaching that one goal you have in mind? Where do you think you could use more help? Leave your thoughts in the comments! 

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Kelly Nash

Kelly Nash is a Chicago-based writer, speaker, career advisor, and founder of Lipstick & Ink®. In addition, she works full-time in technology as a Success Manager at Salesforce and has over 10 years of digital marketing experience. Kelly has been featured in Thrive Global, International Association of Women, General Assembly, Salesforce, SheFactor, and Six Degrees Society. She is also in the process of writing her first book.

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About Kelly Nash

Kelly Nash is a Chicago-based writer, speaker, career advisor, and founder of Lipstick & Ink®. In addition, she works full-time in technology as a Success Manager at Salesforce and has over 10 years of digital marketing experience. Kelly has been featured in Thrive Global, International Association of Women, General Assembly, Salesforce, SheFactor, and Six Degrees Society. She is also in the process of writing her first book.

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  1. Jody B says

    June 5, 2018 at 2:29 am

    I love the idea of setting a main goal (like setting up a blog) and then having a list of mini goals to get there! It definitely makes the main goal feel less daunting. Thanks for sharing! x

    Reply
    • Kelly Nash says

      June 16, 2018 at 10:36 pm

      Exactly, Jody! Thanks for reading!

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◉ I started L&I with a mission to help women 𝗼𝘄𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗶𝗿 𝗽𝗼𝘄𝗲𝗿 & 𝗺𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗶𝗿 𝗺𝗮𝗿𝗸 so they can advance & drive impact in the workplace and beyond. With everything I do, 𝗺𝘆 𝗴𝗼𝗮𝗹 𝗶𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝗲𝗺𝗽𝗼𝘄𝗲𝗿 𝘄𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗻 𝘁𝗼 𝗯𝗲𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗶𝗿 𝗯𝗲𝘀𝘁 𝗮𝗱𝘃𝗼𝗰𝗮𝘁𝗲𝘀, 𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝘄𝗵𝗶𝗹𝗲 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝘆𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮𝘂𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗰 𝘁𝗼 𝘄𝗵𝗼 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝗮𝗿𝗲
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My hope is you think of L&I any time you're looking for career advice, direction, or motivation because I am here in your corner, cheering you on. 𝗧𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗸 𝗼𝗳 𝗺𝗲 𝗮𝘀 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝘂𝗹𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝗵𝘆𝗽𝗲 𝘄𝗼𝗺𝗮𝗻 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗴𝗿𝗼𝘄𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗰𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗲𝗿💋
If you’re looking to land a promotion, obtain a If you’re looking to land a promotion, obtain a new job, or get noticed by leadership, then 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗺𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝗱𝗼𝗰𝘂𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗮𝗰𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗽𝗹𝗶𝘀𝗵𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗱𝗯𝗮𝗰𝗸 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗿𝗲𝗰𝗲𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗮𝘁 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗸! Keeping a record of this information is critical to growing your career.
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𝙄𝙛 𝙮𝙤𝙪'𝙧𝙚 𝙡𝙤𝙤𝙠𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙖 𝙬𝙖𝙮 𝙩𝙤 𝙠𝙚𝙚𝙥 𝙩𝙧𝙖𝙘𝙠 𝙤𝙛 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙬𝙤𝙧𝙠 𝙬𝙞𝙣𝙨, 𝙮𝙤𝙪'𝙧𝙚 𝙞𝙣 𝙡𝙪𝙘𝙠! I have a free template you can download on thelipstickandink.com, found via the link in my bio under 𝚁𝚎𝚜𝚘𝚞𝚛𝚌𝚎𝚜. This worksheet is ideal for professionals who work with clients and on specific projects. However, the template can easily be modified to adapt to the work that you do.
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I recommend updating this worksheet on a consistent basis and doing so immediately when you acknowledge your accomplishments or receive positive feedback.
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Have a great weekend!💋
𝙇𝙖𝙙𝙞𝙚𝙨, 𝙡𝙞𝙨𝙩𝙚𝙣 𝙇𝙖𝙙𝙞𝙚𝙨, 𝙡𝙞𝙨𝙩𝙚𝙣 𝙪𝙥. Today is #EqualPayDay, marking the day into the year the average woman must work to be paid what the average white man was paid the previous year. Aka - it takes us 𝟏𝟓 𝐦𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐡𝐬.
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The gender pay gap now stands at 18% globally, meaning women earn an average of 82% of what men earn. For women of color and women with children, the difference is even greater. At this rate, 𝗶𝘁’𝘀 𝗴𝗼𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗼 𝘁𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝟮𝟱𝟬+ 𝘆𝗲𝗮𝗿𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝗰𝗹𝗼𝘀𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗮𝗴𝗲 𝗴𝗮𝗽, according to the World Economic Forum’s Global Gender Gap Report. 𝑰𝒏𝒇𝒖𝒓𝒊𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈. 𝑼𝒏𝒂𝒄𝒄𝒆𝒑𝒕𝒂𝒃𝒍𝒆. 𝑴𝒂𝒅𝒏𝒆𝒔𝒔.
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So what can we individually do to ensure equal pay? ⠀
$ 𝗙𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗳𝗮𝗶𝗿 𝗽𝗮𝘆 𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗹𝘆 𝗼𝗻: The pay gap typically gets wider as women get older. Part of that is due to what is called “motherhood penalty” that proves being a mother leads to discrimination in the workplace. (The pandemic has amplified this as women have left the workforce 4x higher than men.) ⠀
$𝗕𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗼𝘄𝗻 𝗯𝗲𝘀𝘁 𝗮𝗱𝘃𝗼𝗰𝗮𝘁𝗲: Realize you hold the power in your career trajectory. Don’t put off asking for a promotion and raise, especially when you’ve taken on additional responsibilities or it’s been awhile since you last received one. Plant the seed early on and discuss your aspirations with your manager. ⠀
$𝗗𝗼 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗰𝗵: Find your market value based on your role, location, and years of experience by researching on sites like Glassdoor.com. If you’re feeling bold, ask your coworkers if they’re willing to share their pay so you can check for parity. ⠀
$𝗖𝘂𝗹𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗮𝘁𝗲 & 𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗻𝗲𝗴𝗼𝘁𝗶𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝘀𝗸𝗶𝗹𝗹𝘀: Always negotiate your pay. As I always say, it never hurts to ask!! Bring facts to the table & quantify your work to showcase your value and make your case.
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Remember to always know your worth & speak up for yourself💋
When I first started my career, I remember being t When I first started my career, I remember being told to '𝘬𝘦𝘦𝘱 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘴 𝘱𝘳𝘰𝘧𝘦𝘴𝘴𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘢𝘭,' make my social media profiles private, and leave my emotions at the office front door. I listened and abided by that for a number of years, 𝗺𝗮𝘀𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗸𝗲𝘆 𝗽𝗮𝗿𝘁𝘀 𝗼𝗳 𝗺𝘆𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗽𝘂𝘁𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗼𝗻 𝗮 𝗳𝗮𝗰𝗮𝗱𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝘄𝗵𝗼 𝗜 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝗹𝘆 𝘄𝗮𝘀.
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After a few years, I said enough was enough. I didn't like that I wasn't being authentic to who I really was. The person I was at work didn't need to be any different from who I was outside of the office. Little by little, I began taking "risks:"⠀
✔ giving my resume and LinkedIn some personality⠀
✔ starting L&I and sharing about it in career settings⠀
✔ speaking my truth and not being afraid to speak up⠀
✔ not sitting in silence at the beginning of calls and asking attendees questions⠀
✔ showing my emotions and sharing how I'm feeling
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And little by little, I learned that 𝘀𝗵𝗼𝘄𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘂𝗽 𝗮𝘀 𝗺𝗲 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗼𝘄𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘄𝗵𝗼 𝗜 𝘄𝗮𝘀 𝗮𝗰𝘁𝘂𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝗯𝗲𝗰𝗮𝗺𝗲 𝗺𝘆 𝗽𝗼𝘄𝗲𝗿. Simply being myself and putting it out there ultimately led to new connections, deeper relationships, increased visibility, and more leadership opportunities - all of which are crucial to growing in your career.
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𝙎𝙖𝙫𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙨 𝙥𝙤𝙨𝙩 𝙖𝙨 𝙖 𝙧𝙚𝙢𝙞𝙣𝙙𝙚𝙧 𝙩𝙤 𝙖𝙡𝙬𝙖𝙮𝙨 𝙨𝙝𝙤𝙬 𝙪𝙥 𝙖𝙨 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧𝙨𝙚𝙡𝙛 - 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧𝙨𝙚𝙡𝙛 - 𝙞𝙣 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙘𝙖𝙧𝙚𝙚𝙧. You'll be surprised as to what happens when you do💋
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